What women want. Three little words that have had men spun for centuries. Is it really that hard to figure us out? Well, even Freud couldn’t do it, so don’t feel bad fellas.
So what is it that truly attracts MOST women to men? A fancy car? A large bank account? A summer house in the Hamptons? The answer truly is: NONE OF THE ABOVE
A real woman wants to know that the man she’s with knows her worth, and is strong enough to walk WITH her in this life. Although, it’s a little enjoyable leaving ourselves a mystery to most men, I thought I would “defy the sisterhood” a little and let you guys in on a few of our secrets.
HERE IS MY TOP 7 LIST OF WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT:
GROW UPDon’t get me wrong, we love the “boyish charm” and all, but we crave maturity. There is nothing sexy about a “boy brain” stuck in a man’s body.
HAVE SOME INTEGRITYThere is nothing sexier than a man who has integrity for himself and others. Be confident and stand for something. In today’s society people are far too quick to compromise their morals and values for just about anything. So show us your depth and character.
BE A MANContrary to what you believe, women do NOT want a guy who is “like them”. If that was the case, then we would ALL be dating ourselves, rather than waste time getting to know you. Just be YOU! We want a “man’s man” in all his glory. Raw & Sexy!!
UNDERSTAND THAT WE THINK DIFFERENTLY THEN MEN DOStop trying to “boy up” your lady. Yes, we are emotionally driven creatures with mood swings. Accept it and move on. Respect the fact that we need more of a connection to feel comfortable.
ROUTINE BECOMES HABITWomen only expect what you get them used to. When you first begin dating us, if you consistently call/text us throughout the day, then we are going to expect that this will be the pace during the entire time that we’re together. If you call us every day for a month and then that stops, we are naturally going to ask “what’s wrong” So don’t call us clingy because YOU got us used to something you now can no longer deliver.
BE YOURSELFDon’t ever pretend to be something you’re not. All we want is to get to know you. We want to see the REAL you, not a guy you THINK we want to see. Don’t spend weeks on end telling us that you are NOT a player or that you are NOT like all the other guys we’ve been with. All that tells us is that you are.
RESPECT USAt the end of the day, it’s what any woman wants. Don’t think us stupid or play with our minds, because we’re smarter than that. They don’t call it “women’s intuition” for nothing, fellas. Just treat us the same way you wish to be treated. It's all we ask.
At the end of the day, us gals are certainly from Venus, while you guys are born on Mars. It's an inevitable fact. We're different, and that's ok. We want you to change us about as much as you want us to change you - NOT AT ALL! So let's accept our differences and have a blast.
After all, we should be lovers...not fighters..