Well, it seems that my last blog post (What Women Want) got some attention and it hit home for some of you (lol). After receiving some feedback and e-mails from our male followers, the fellas voiced that they wanted a list of their own. Far be it for me to argue with them.
So, I found it only fitting to "do one for the boys" as well.However, instead of writing about want men want in a woman, they demanded a twist.
NO SUGAR DADDY’S HERE, LADIES!
Regardless of what women think, we do NOT want a girl whose main objective is to spend all of our hard earned money. Listen ladies, we love being “the gentleman” and treating you to things, because you’re special and always want you to feel as such. However, the feeling goes both ways. We wanna feel special too!!!! So try picking up the tab every once in a while. Or, at the very least, make a reach for your wallet from time to time. More often than not, we will always tell you that “we’ve got it”, but the fact that you made the gesture is what matters to us.
WE HATE IT WHEN YOU NAG
Ladies, YOU ALL KNOW THIS IS TRUE. So why do you do it? Men don’t like to be talked down to and “bitched out” about every little thing that comes up in your brain. We can only sit there and listen to this for so long. If it happens often enough we learn to tune you out. This is probably why women constantly ask us if we’re listening to them. So that there’s no confusion, let me answer this question for all of you right now: NO! We’re not! These days, thanks to social media, it’s not enough that women nag us in person. Now women do it via text, Face Book and Twitter. SERENITY NOW!!!
CONTROL FREAKS NEED NOT APPLY
Men are men, so don’t try to change/control us. You were attracted to us initially and it was “all good” for the first little while. Now, all of the sudden, we’re not good enough. What the hell is that all about? You cannot just come into our lives and tell us who to be friends with, how often we can go out or how to dress. Now, we don’t claim to be a perfect gender by any means but, it cannot be all bad. If it was then you wouldn’t be with us. So appreciate us for who we are and maybe, just maybe, we might even compromise on a couple of things.
CONFIDENCE IS THE SEXIEST THING ABOUT A WOMAN
Now I know women don’t believe this, but it’s true. If a women exudes confidence it will automatically attract a man to her in some way. Yes, we are a visual species but there’s nothing worse than being with a good looking lady who’s self-conscious and has no brain. We need to be stimulated in more ways than just physically. Be confident and comfortable in your own skin and of your worth. However, understand that there is a fine line between confidence and being full of yourself. Be confident, but humble.
So, there you have it. It seems that we just may still have A LOT to learn about one another!
Thank-you so much to all of you who wrote in with your comments, suggestions and feedback that made this blog post possible. It was A LOT of fun to write.